{"id":24981,"date":"2026-08-30T09:00:10","date_gmt":"2026-08-30T09:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bronwynrusso.com\/?p=24981"},"modified":"2026-10-28T09:00:37","modified_gmt":"2026-10-28T09:00:37","slug":"conscious-living-33-making-space-for-spring","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bronwynrusso.com\/?p=24981","title":{"rendered":"Conscious Living #33: Making Space for Spring"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"conscious-living-newsletter\" style=\"max-width:780px;margin:0 auto;font-size:18px;line-height:1.75;\">\n<h2>August reminded me that&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p>There is a quiet power in creating space.<br \/>\nSpace between who we truly are and the conditioning we have absorbed; between a thought and our belief in it; between an emotion and our reaction to it. When we step back and become the observer, we can begin to ask:<br \/>\n<em>Is this true?<br \/>\nIs it worthy?<br \/>\nIs it helpful?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>We become more conscious of what we are mirroring, leading with and role-modelling &#8211; and of what, in turn, is being mirrored back to us, often through the people closest to us, especially our children.<\/p>\n<p><strong>This is where real transformation begins<\/strong>:<\/p>\n<p>Not in believing every thought, following every fear or reacting to every emotion that arises &#8211;\u00a0but in creating enough space to choose how we want to meet what is here.<\/p>\n<p>And perhaps that is part of what it means to live awake.<\/p>\n<p>To notice. To question. To choose consciously.<\/p>\n<p>To trust that even when we cannot see the whole path clearly, it is still there.<\/p>\n<p>And in that space between what arises and what we choose next, we may discover something that was available to us all along:<\/p>\n<p><strong>The possibility of a different response <\/strong>&#8211;<strong>\u00a0and perhaps find the peace that has been waiting for us in the present moment all along.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>The Wisdom of our Children<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Image from Conscious Living #33: Making Space for Spring\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/mcusercontent.com\/9c13088cf0609e1940f697685\/images\/45024039-1afd-1083-b094-60f043766ef4.png\" style=\"display:block;max-width:100%;height:auto;margin:24px auto;\"\/><\/p>\n<h3><strong>Kids say the darndest things, don\u2019t they?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>But what if, every now and then, we stopped long enough to really listen?<\/p>\n<p>As adults, we spend so much time nurturing, guiding, protecting and teaching our children all the things we think they need to know about life.<\/p>\n<p>And then, every so often, they turn around and teach us something instead.<\/p>\n<p>Lately, I\u2019ve found myself being reminded of this by my own children &#8211;\u00a0and by watching other parents with theirs. In their honesty, curiosity, unexpected wisdom (and sometimes hilarious observations!), children have a wonderful way of making us see things differently.<\/p>\n<p>So here are a few little reminders from this month that made me smile, think, or both.<\/p>\n<p>Because sometimes, while we\u2019re busy raising them,\u00a0<strong>they\u2019re raising us too.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>How one sentence opened up a window to a whole new parenting style &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@consciouslivingclinic\/video\/7673034133844577544?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc\">Watch Here<\/a><br \/>\nHow my own daughter taught me about teamwork &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@consciouslivingclinic\/video\/7676054021878091016?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc\">Watch Here<\/a><br \/>\nAnd the way our children grow into the things we&#8217;ve taught them &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/whatsapp.com\/channel\/0029VbAV9UQJkK7AqQKDyW25\/469\">Read Here<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>In Case You Missed It Some Whatsapp Channel Highlights<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/drive.google.com\/file\/d\/1arJi6ReIs359e5qTL-aMBGRZJ72lmC9c\/view?usp=drive_link\"><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Image from Conscious Living #33: Making Space for Spring\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/mcusercontent.com\/9c13088cf0609e1940f697685\/images\/d9f85df5-c1a1-718c-269e-c12e48bb6246.jpg\" style=\"display:block;max-width:100%;height:auto;margin:24px auto;\"\/><br \/>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<p>            On August 9th, we honoured the women who came before us, the women rising beside us and the generations still to come.<\/p>\n<p>Their silence was never the absence of a voice.<\/p>\n<p>It was courage. Resistance. Collective power.<\/p>\n<p>Across seven decades, their voices have continued to rise &#8211; calling for freedom, truth, unity and leadership.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She rises. We rise.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>#NationalWomensDay #WomensDay2026 #SheRisesWeRise #TheAwakenedWoman #ConsciousLiving<\/p>\n<p>August 12th saw us recognising our youngsters.<\/p>\n<p>Listen to young people.<br \/>\nMake space for their voices.<br \/>\nRecognise that they are already shaping the world.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mind full or mindful?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>One creates noise.<br \/>\nThe other creates space.<\/p>\n<p>Being mindful means becoming the observer of your thoughts, not getting lost inside them.<\/p>\n<p><em>Here\u2019s your friendly reminder:<\/em><br \/>\nYou don\u2019t have to carry every thought into every day.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Image from Conscious Living #33: Making Space for Spring\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/mcusercontent.com\/9c13088cf0609e1940f697685\/images\/89d8bd6b-7f36-666e-bb15-9e60684a7c6c.jpeg\" style=\"display:block;max-width:100%;height:auto;margin:24px auto;\"\/><\/p>\n<p>We had a few cold, wet and rainy days in Eswatini this month\u2026 and it got me thinking. \ud83c\udf27\ufe0f<\/p>\n<p>When the weather is cold, we put on layers.<br \/>\nPerhaps we do the same with people.<\/p>\n<p>When the environment around us feels cold, critical or unwelcoming, we protect ourselves. We close off. We add layers.<\/p>\n<p>And when there is warmth, safety and acceptance, something in us begins to soften.<\/p>\n<p>So a little Conscious Living thought for you:<\/p>\n<p>What kind of weather are you creating for the people around you?<br \/>\nAre people having to layer up around you?<br \/>\nOr do they feel safe enough to take a layer off?\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>#ConsciousLiving \ud83c\udf31<\/p>\n<h2>Try This With Me<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/drive.google.com\/file\/d\/1sMqlH0uy65sj4XDI1TVf_LIQC10mRc5V\/view?usp=sharing\"><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Image from Conscious Living #33: Making Space for Spring\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/mcusercontent.com\/9c13088cf0609e1940f697685\/images\/7c7a19ca-bd00-77a2-1730-28829436f15b.png\" style=\"display:block;max-width:100%;height:auto;margin:24px auto;\"\/><br \/>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\nOur minds generate thousands of thoughts every day.<\/p>\n<p>The goal isn\u2019t to stop thinking.<br \/>\nThe goal is to become aware of which thoughts you\u2019re giving your attention to.<\/p>\n<p>This month&#8217;s exercise is one I often use in therapy to help create a little space between ourselves and our thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>Give it a try, and afterwards ask yourself:<\/p>\n<p>What changed when I became the observer instead of the thinker? \ud83e\udd0d<\/p>\n<p>#ConsciousLiving \ud83c\udf31<\/p>\n<h2>Upcoming Events<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Tomorrow, as we step into spring, something new begins.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nOn 1 September, I\u2019ll be hosting the very first\u00a0<strong>Awakened Woman Circle<\/strong>\u00a0&#8211;\u00a0a monthly online space for women to deepen the work, stay connected, and keep choosing how they want to live.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>The Circle is both a continuation and a beginning<\/strong>\u00a0&#8211;\u00a0for women who have journeyed with us before, and those joining us for the very first time.<br \/>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\ud83c\udf3f\u00a0<strong>The Awakened Woman Circle<\/strong><br \/>\nFirst Tuesday of every month<br \/>\n18:30 (SAST)<br \/>\nBegins 1 September<br \/>\nSZL 250\/month<br \/>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>Learn More &amp; Register \u2192 <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/mailchi.mp\/2b699dc53444\/inside-the-awakened-woman-circle-everything-you-need-to-know?e=5574fd00bb\">Awakened Woman Circle<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Where women stay awake &#8211;\u00a0together.<\/em>\u00a0\ud83e\udd8b<\/p>\n<p>\nAnd if you missed the Awakened Woman workshops, stay close\u2026\u00a0<strong>I have some exciting news coming soon. \ud83d\udc40\ud83c\udf3f<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Image from Conscious Living #33: Making Space for Spring\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/mcusercontent.com\/9c13088cf0609e1940f697685\/images\/1edbd7de-9eb6-f481-ab1b-de1c1680ec9d.png\" style=\"display:block;max-width:100%;height:auto;margin:24px auto;\"\/><\/p>\n<h2>Behind The Scenes<\/h2>\n<p>This month, I\u2019ve been reading\u00a0<em>A Return to Love<\/em>\u00a0by Marianne Williamson &#8211;\u00a0a book that explores what can shift when we begin to move from fear towards love.<\/p>\n<p>One line that has stayed with me comes from\u00a0<em>A Course in Miracles<\/em>, which deeply influences the book:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cThe past is over. It can touch me not.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>A simple but powerful reminder that while the past may shape us, it doesn\u2019t have to decide what happens next.<\/p>\n<p>It fits beautifully with this month\u2019s themes of stepping back, observing our thoughts, being present and remembering that sometimes\u00a0<strong>a new beginning starts with seeing differently.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>August Affirmation<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Image from Conscious Living #33: Making Space for Spring\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/mcusercontent.com\/9c13088cf0609e1940f697685\/images\/e861ed9b-606a-d05c-0005-5ba32c13112a.jpeg\" style=\"display:block;max-width:100%;height:auto;margin:24px auto;\"\/><\/p>\n<p>\nYou don\u2019t need to wish you\u2019d started sooner.<br \/>\nYou just need to start from where you are.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The second best time is now.\u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Image from Conscious Living #33: Making Space for Spring\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/mcusercontent.com\/9c13088cf0609e1940f697685\/images\/53cbe855-4eca-8549-e9a4-33a3afdebcd2.png\" style=\"display:block;max-width:100%;height:auto;margin:24px auto;\"\/><\/p>\n<p><em>Consciously,<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Bronwyn Russo<br \/>\nClinical Psychologist<br \/>\nM.A. Clin. Psych. (Curtin University, Australia)<\/em><br \/>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-top:36px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/mailchi.mp\/12a52ca9c092\/conscious-living-33-making-space-for-spring\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">View the original newsletter<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Making space for spring, fresh possibilities, and the everyday moments that bring us back to what matters.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":24959,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24981","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-conscious-living"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bronwynrusso.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24981","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bronwynrusso.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bronwynrusso.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bronwynrusso.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bronwynrusso.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=24981"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bronwynrusso.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24981\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24982,"href":"https:\/\/bronwynrusso.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24981\/revisions\/24982"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bronwynrusso.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/24959"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bronwynrusso.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=24981"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bronwynrusso.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=24981"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bronwynrusso.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=24981"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}